Over Exaggerated Risks
It is astonishing how often internet worriers insist that the use of anal numbing for anal games is a life threatening. They will point to the rear reports of hospitalizations as a result of anal abuse and misadventure without putting any of them into context.
If you take a moment to contemplate how many times a second (every second of every minute of every day) an ass is being penetrated, any risk of serious injury from anal sex is remote to say the least. Furthermore, Telling people to abstain is futile. People who use desensitizing toothpaste don’t break teeth or their jaw every other day from biting too hard on toffy.
But there is a lot of damage you can do during anal sex. Never use desensitizing lube it to subdue ‘Real’ pain. Never use it to try stretching or penetrating a person beyond their limits. While it is not particularly easy to do real damage during anal sex, minor injuries like muscular strains and skin tears are very common. These can put off a person from every trying anal sex again.
Also, when you cause major damage it is life threatening, so be especially careful when you are moving to a new level of depth or stretch with your bottom, especially with a new partner or someone new to anal sex.