I am a stout believer in using enema’s effectively. Why make a huge mess on the bed or the floor when cleaning only takes about 30 minutes with just over warm water to clean so effectively. I usually play by myself. So I first clean out with my 4 quart silicone enema bag. Then I warm up using my smallest butt plug. From there I am ready for most anything. Don’t be afraid to try using an enema. Most pharmacies and drug stores carry the basic black or red rubber bags. Most of all have fun!!!